Ok, I get it now ... and it's just like you to do this to yourself ... you've been suffering inside your head the entire time, haven't you?
Yet, even so, Mieko and I shared our lives. But Meiko had an accident and fell into a vegetative state. Her eyes no longer saw; her ears no longer heard. My children grieved, but as much as I felt it my place to grieve as well, I had no idea how to.
She wanted to do things without having to worry what others thought.She simply lived for her freedom.